Relationship

Sermon Notes

RELATIONSHIP: THAT I MAY KNOW HIM

Everything God desires to do in and through your life, He will accomplish out of the overflow of your relationship with Him. When believers fully grasp this concept, it’s one of the first major steps to being set free from the chains of religion.

This sermon series, Relationship, is foundational for every aspect of discipleship, Christian growth, joy, freedom, contentment, character development and maturity. Learn more about the goal of the relationship, the motivation for relationship, the nature of the relationship, things that compete against the relationship, and the benefits of relationship. It’s one thing to say, “Christianity is about relationship.” It’s another thing to actually understand what that means, why it matters and how we can pursue it.

Message 01

July 25, 2021 AM
Paul Gotthardt
(#1 in series)

Relationship: The Goal of Relationship

Philippians 3:7-11


Three reasons for this series:

  1. __ God desires to do in and through your life, He will accomplish out of the overflow of your relationship with Him.

  2. Eternal life is to __ God (and that’s relationship).

  3. An abiding relationship with Jesus changes __.

Key Truth: The goal of the relationship is to __ Christ (vv. 8, 10).

“…I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord…that I may know Him…”

How do we get to know Christ?

We get to know Jesus by spending __ with Jesus where the __ is on Jesus!

Key Concept: The goal and the spiritual __ must stay together.

The Gospel Message:

  • Humanity was created for relationship with God.

  • Our sin separated us from that relationship.

  • There was nothing we could do to reconcile the relationship on our own.

  • Jesus lived a sinless life.

  • Jesus died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sin.

  • Jesus rose again on the third day that we might have life.

  • Jesus offers eternal life (or a reconciled relationship) to those who will repent of their sin by placing faith in Him.

“Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.” – Augustine

Key Concept: A disciple who seeks to __ God will always be met by the God who __ to make Himself known.

Message 02

August 01, 2021 AM
Paul Gotthardt
(#2 in series)

Relationship: The Motivation of Relationship

Philippians 3:7-11

What motivated you to enter relationship with Christ?

Key Truth: Your __ when entering relationship may unintentionally determine the __ of that relationship.

Last week, we focused on the goal of our relationship with God.

We asked the question, “__ are we trying to achieve?”

Today, we focus on the motivation of our relationship with God.
We’re asking the question, “__ are we in the relationship at all?”

Two motivating truths hit home on that day:

1)  __ is a great sinner.
2)  Jesus is the great __.

Those who have been saved __ much are grateful __ much. 

Circumstances got his __, but the gospel became his __.

Message 03

August 08, 2021 AM
Paul Gotthardt
(#3 in series)

RELATIONSHIP: The Nature of Relationship
Philippians 3:7-11

Week 1 was about the goal of relationship.
What are we trying to achieve? The goal is to know Christ.

Week 2 was about the motivation of relationship.
Why are we in the relationship at all? Our motivation when entering relationship may unintentionally determine the extent of that relationship.

Week 3 is about the nature of relationship.
What defines our relationship with God? The nature of a relationship sets the parameters and establishes the ground rules.

What defines our relationship with God?


Key Truth #1: The nature of the relationship determines our __ within the relationship.

• __ defines our relationship with God.

In verses 8-9, Paul elaborated on what it means to have a relationship with God defined by love.

  • __ Christ
  • __ Christ
  • Being __ in Christ

There is nothing you can do to make God love you __ and there is nothing you can do to make God love you __.

Key Truth #2: Our relationship with God is defined by __ and made possible ONLY by the __ of Christ.

When a believer understands the nature of their relationship with God, it changes __.

Message 04

August 15, 2021 AM
Paul Gotthardt
(#4 in series)

RELATIONSHIP: The Competition of Relationship

Philippians 3:7-11

Week 1: What are we trying to achieve in the relationship? We found that the goal of the relationship is to know Christ.

Week 2: Why are we in the relationship at all?
We found that our motivation when entering relationship may unintentionally determine the extent of that relationship.

Week 3: What defines our relationship with God?
We discovered that our relationship with God is defined by love and made possible ONLY by the righteousness of Christ.

Week 4: What competes or interferes with our relationship?

We’re working through the question with two progressive truths.

Key Truth #1: Competition is anything that ___ with or takes precedence over our relationship with God.

  • As believers, we can’t __ everyone and everything if our relationship with God is __ and suffering.
  • We __ as much about God today as we __ to know.

Key Truth #2: We must __ our relationship with God and value Him above everything else.

  • The decision to pursue Jesus is a decision __ to pursue something else.

Message 05

August 22, 2021 AM
Paul Gotthardt
(#5 in series)

RELATIONSHIP: The Benefits of Relationship

Philippians 3:7-11

What do we gain from our relationship with God?

1) We gain our true __ by knowing Jesus. (vv. 7-9a)

Deep need of humanity: The need for __ identity

A New Testament snapshot of Christian identity:

  • I am a child of God. (Rom. 8:16)
  • I am chosen and appointed by Christ to bear fruit. (Joh. 15:16)
  • I am a slave of righteousness. (Rom. 6:18)
  • I am a new creation. (2 Cor. 5:17)
  • I am a saint. (Eph. 1:1)
  • I am righteous and holy. (Eph. 4:24)
  • I am hidden with Christ in God. (Col. 3:3)
  • I am chosen and dearly loved by God. (1 Thes. 1:4)
  • I am an alien and stranger to this world. (1 Pet. 2:11)

2)  We gain __ through the righteousness of Jesus. (v. 9b)

Deep need of humanity: The need for __

3)  We gain unlimited __ through the resurrection of Jesus. (v. 10a)

Deep need of humanity: The need for __

4)  We gain an empathetic __ through the suffering of Jesus. (10b)

Deep need of humanity: The need for __

5) We gain __ through the finished work of Jesus. (v. 11)

Deep need of humanity: The need to know about __

Conclusion/Reflection

Notice the theological sequence:

  • Verse 08: Identification
  • Verse 09: Justification
  • Verse 10: Sanctification
  • Verse 11: Glorification