Vine Resources

Explore Sherwood’s Vine Resources, a curated collection of handouts to deepen your understanding of God’s character, foster spiritual growth, and guide your study of the Word. Physical copies of these resources are available for free at the Connection Center. For those looking for a complete set, Vine Resource binders, pre-packed with handouts, can be purchased at the Source Bookstore.

Interpretational Principles for Scripture

When studying the Bible, you always move from general to specific.

  • You begin with a general understanding of Scripture.
    • The Bible is God’s Word.
    • The Bible is true.
    • The Bible is God’s revelation of Himself to humanity.
    • The Bible gives God’s guidance for our lives.
  • You move to an overall understanding of the book.
    • Who is the author?
    • Who is the audience?
    • Where was it written (setting)?
    • Why was it written (purpose)?
    • What is the style of writing (genre)?
  • You work into specific teachings from individual verses.
    • Reading the verses before and after your section
    • What is the writer talking about?

There is one interpretation; there are many applications.

  • Correct interpretation means that you interpret the text in the way that the original writer intended for the original audience.
  • When you interpret the text correctly, you can apply the text in multiple ways based on overall principles. A text on serving others can be applied in thousands of ways of service. A text on praying fervently can be applied in countless opportunities to pray.

Allow Scripture to be your text, not just your proof text.

  • Exegesis is reading out of the Scriptures what the Scriptures say.
  • Isogesis is reading into the Scriptures what you think it says.
  • Instead of coming to the Bible with a preconceived idea, allow the Bible to shape your ideas.

You must be born again.

  • The Holy Spirit quickens the spirit and brings you into fellowship with God. (John 3:1-8)
  • The Holy Spirit guides you into all truth. (John 16:13)
  • God’s Word is truth. (John 17:17)
  • Non-Christians do not accept the things of the Spirit and cannot understand the things of the Spirit. They must be spiritually assessed. (1 Corinthians 2:14)

Scripture interprets Scripture.

  • Interpret difficult passages in light of clear passages.
  • No Scripture stands alone.

Interpret Scripture literally.

  • To interpret Scripture literally means to interpret in the literal sense in which it was written. Look at the context.
  • The context includes: Author, Audience, Purpose, Setting and Genre.
  • The genre is the style of the writing.
  • Scripture includes several primary genres: Historical narrative, Poetry, Wisdom literature, Epistles, Prophesy, Apocalyptic writings.
  • You do not interpret every genre the same way. You must interpret it in the literal sense in which it was written.

The Bible does not contradict itself.

  • If two texts seem to contradict each other, that means one of two things:
    • You do not fully understand the purpose or meaning of the text and/or
    • You have encountered an antinomy.
  • Antinomy is when two statements appear contradictory, they cannot be logically resolved, yet both are held to be true because God’s Word declares them true.
    • Examples: The Trinitarian nature of God, sovereignty and free will in salvation, the omnipresence of God and Him arriving in certain areas, the omniscience of God, and Jesus learning as a boy, etc.

Sound theology is not developed on a single verse.

  • When one verse is pulled out of context, and an entire belief system is built upon it—that’s usually the beginning of a cult.
  • A cult is a group that rejects the fundamental teachings of a religion.
  • In Christianity, some of the fundamental teachings are: (1) salvation by grace through faith, (2) the Trinitarian nature of God, (3) Jesus’ physical death on the cross and His bodily resurrection, (4) the virgin birth, (5) the deity of Christ, (6) the depravity of humanity, (7) the second coming of Christ, etc.

Biblical Manhood | Embracing God’s Unique Design for Men

What is God’s Design for Men in General?

  • A godly man is to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, sound in love, and steadfast. (Titus 2:1-15)

What is God’s Design for Husbands?

  • A husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. (Ephesians 5:25)
  • A husband is to remain faithful to his wife. (1 Corinthians 7:1-40)
  • A husband is to leave his father and mother and join to his wife. (Ephesians 5:31)
  • A husband is to honor his wife. (1 Peter 3:7)
  • A husband is to be kind to his wife. (Colossians 3:19)
  • A husband is to fulfill his role as spiritual leader and protector. (Ephesians 5:23; 1 Corinthians 11:3)
  • A husband is to provide for his home and family. (1 Timothy 5:8; Proverbs 13:22a)
  • A husband is to live joyfully with his wife. (Ecclesiastes 9:9)

What is God’s Design for Fathers?

  • A father is to model what it means to fear the Lord. (Proverbs 14:26)
  • A father is to lead his family by keeping God at the center. (Joshua 24:15)
  • A father is to model and continually teach his children to love God completely. (Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
  • A father is to treat his children as a blessing from God. (Psalm 127:3-5)
  • A father is to walk with integrity. (Proverbs 20:7)
  • A father is to teach his children God’s way and provide a biblical worldview. (Proverbs 22:6)
  • A father is to discipline his children in love. (Proverbs 3:11-12)
  • A father is to show compassion to his children. (Psalm 103:13)
  • A father is to encourage and exhort his children. (1 Thessalonians 2:11-12)
  • A father is not to provoke his children. (Ephesians 6:4)

Recommended Resources?

  1. fatherhoodcommission.com
  2. authenticmanhood.com
  3. cbmw.org (Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood)
  4. The Quest for Authentic Manhood, Robert Lewis
  5. 50 Crucial Questions: An Overview of Central Concerns about Manhood and Womanhood, John Piper & Wayne Grudem

Biblical Womanhood | Embracing God’s Unique Design for Women

What is God’s Design for Women in General?

  • A godly woman is to be strong and dignified, face the future with confidence, and teach wisdom and kindness in the fear of the Lord. (Proverbs 31:25, 26, 30)

What is God’s Design for Wives?

  • A wife is to love her husband. (Titus 2:4)
  • A wife is to care for the home and be submissive to her husband. (Ephesians 5:22-24; Titus 2:5)
  • A wife is to respect her husband. (Ephesians 5:33)
  • A wife is to train the next generation of women in God’s design. (Titus 2:4-5)
  • A wife is to be trustworthy. (Proverbs 31:11)
  • A wife is to do her husband good and not harm. (Proverbs 31:12)

What is God’s Design for Mothers?

  • A mother is to comfort and nurture her children. (1 Thessalonians 2:7)
  • A mother is to continually teach her children the Bible. (Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
  • A mother is to teach her children a biblical worldview. (Proverbs 6:20-21)
  • A mother is to discipline her children with love and in love. (Proverbs 29:15)
  • A mother is to train the next generation of wives and mothers. (Titus 2:4-5)
  • A mother is to love her children. (Titus 2:4)

Recommended Resources?

  1. True Woman 101: Divine Design, Mary A. Kassian & Nancy LeighDeMoss
  2. The Feminist Mistake: The Radical Impact of Feminism on Church and Culture, Mary A. Kassian
  3. Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: A Response to Evangelical Feminism, John Piper & Wayne Grudem
  4. God’s Design for Women in an Age of Gender Confusion, Sharon James

Book | Genre | Purpose

Genesis Narrative/History Theological history of Israel
Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy Narrative and Law/Legal Theological history of Israel
Joshua, Judges, Ruth, 1&2 Samuel, 1&2 Kings, 1&2 Chronicles, Ezra, Nehemiah, Esther Narrative/History Theological history of Israel
Psalms Poetry/Songs Emotional praises and cries to God
Job, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Song of Songs Wisdom Wise Living
Isaiah, Jeremiah, Lamentations, Ezekiel, Daniel, Hosea, Joel, Amos, Obadiah, Jonah, Micah, Nahum, Habakkuk, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, Malachi Prophecy and Apocalyptic Call Israel to repentance
Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Acts Narrative/History Theological history of Christ
Romans, 1&2 Corinthians, Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, 1&2 Thessalonians, 1&2 Timothy, Titus, Philemon, Hebrews, James, 1&2 Peter, 1, 2 & 3 John, Jude Epistle/Letters (personal and public) Didactic and pastoral letters written to explain theological teaching for the Church
Revelation Apocalyptic Message of hope for the church

Hearing God’s Voice

God’s Voice

  • Stills you
  • Leads you
  • Reassures you
  • Enlightens you
  • Encourages you
  • Comforts you
  • Calms you
  • Convicts you

Satan’s Voice

  • Rushes you
  • Pushes you
  • Frightens you
  • Confuses you
  • Discourages you
  • Worries you
  • Obsesses you
  • Condemns you

The Path of Wisdom | From the Book of Proverbs

Those on the Path of Wisdom

  • Express a healthy fear of the Lord (1:7; 9:10; 14:2; 15:33)
  • Live faithfully before God (2:6-12)
  • Trust God and not themselves (3:5-7)
  • Pursue wisdom, knowledge and discernment (3:13-18; 4:5-9; 10:14; 15:14; 17:24; 19:8; 19:20; 23:23)
  • Walk the path of righteousness (4:18; 8:20)
  • Listen to wise counsel (5:1; 8:1; 13:10; 15:31; 20:18; 22:17; 23:19; 24:6)
  • Accept correction and discipline (6:23; 10:17; 13:1; 15:5; 19:25; 21:11; 23:23)
  • Have good judgment and understanding (8:12; 16:21)
  • Hate pride, corruption and perverse speech (8:13)
  • Are joyful (8:32)
  • Are teachable (9:8-9; 10:8)
  • Act in an appropriate period of time (10:5)
  • Have integrity (10:9; 10:29)
  • Encourage others (10:21)
  • Are humble (11:2)
  • Stay calm when insulted (12:16)
  • Share words of healing (12:16)
  • Don’t show off their knowledge (12:23)
  • Live blamelessly (13:6)
  • Think before they act (13:16)
  • Walk with wise people and avoid fools (13:20; 14:7)
  • Speak wisely and give good advice (14:2; 15:2; 15:7)
  • Understand where they are going (14:8)
  • Are cautious and avoid danger (14:16)
  • Control their anger (14:29)
  • Stay on the right path (15:21)
  • Use few words (17:27)
  • Are innocent (21:8)
  • Have wealth and luxury (21:20)
  • Know when to quit (23:4)
  • Bring joy to their parents (23:24; 29:3)
  • Bring stability to a situation (28:2)
  • Obey the law (28:7)
  • Calm anger in others (29:8)
  • Hold back anger in themselves (29:11)

The Path of Wisdom

  • Will bring honor (3:35)
  • Will guard your heart (4:23)
  • Will bring common sense, success, insight and strength (8:14)
  • Will lead to life (12:28)
  • Will lead away from evil (16:17)
  • Is safe (16:17)

The Path of Foolishness | From the Book of Proverbs

Those on the Path of Wisdom

  • Despise wisdom (1:7)
  • Hang with the wrong crowd (1:10-19)
  • Hate knowledge and understanding (1:22; 17:16; 18:2)
  • Are complacent (1:32)
  • Take sinful, crooked ways (2:13-15; 4:14-17)
  • Ignore correction (10:17; 13:1)
  • Chase after immoral women (2:16-22; 5:3-23; 7:1-27)
  • Commit adultery (6:32)
  • Move towards violence (3:31; 16:29)
  • Bring shame (3:35)
  • Lack self-control (5:23)
  • Are simple-minded and lack good judgment (9:6; 14:18)
  • Don’t stop talking (10:14)
  • Slander others (10:18)
  • Lack common sense (10:21)
  • Enjoy doing wrong (10:23)
  • Are prideful (11:2; 14:3)
  • Think their way is right (12:15; 28:26)
  • Are quick tempered (12:16; 14:17; 14:29; 18:13; 29:11)
  • Broadcast their foolishness (12:23)
  • Brag about their foolishness (13:16; 15:2)
  • Refuse to turn from evil (13:19)
  • Associate with other fools (13:20)
  • Despise the Lord (14:2)
  • Cannot find wisdom (14:6; 14:33; 24:7; 26:7)
  • Deceive themselves (14:8)
  • Make fun of guilt (14:9)
  • Plunge into danger (14:16)
  • Despise discipline (1:7; 15:5; 16:22)
  • Will be severely disciplined (15:10)
  • Feed on mental trash (15:14)
  • Are lazy (15:19)
  • Despise their mother (15:20)
  • Bring joy to those with no sense (15:21)
  • Cause pain, grief, and bitterness to their parents (17:21; 17:25; 18:13; 19:13)
  • Get into constant quarrels (18:6; 18:7; 20:3)
  • Ruin their own lives (19:3)
  • Are led away by alcohol (20:1)
  • Are guilty (21:8)
  • Spend everything they get (21:20)
  • Involve themselves in sinful schemes (24:9)
  • Are not fit for honor (26:1; 26:8)
  • Need to be beaten (17:10; 19:29; 22:15; 26:3)
  • Should not be hired (26:10)
  • Return to their foolishness (26:11; 27:22)

The Path of Foolishness

  • Is the way of the wicked and it’s dark (4:19)
  • Calls to people minding their own business, who lack good judgment, and want something for nothing (9:13-18)

Prayerful Questions for Devotional Reading

For the Purpose of Knowing God

Reading the Bible devotionally is about spending time with God, in the Word of God, where the focus is on God. The goal is to know God deeply.

To help you focus, read smaller portions of Scripture (maybe 3-5 verses or a paragraph).

Start a journal and write the Bible reference at the top. After reading the text, pray through these questions, wait for God’s response, and write down what He shares.

Take your time in this process. The goal is not to finish every question; the goal is to engage with God (to know Him more). Read for depth, not distance.

1) Who is Jesus?
Complete this statement based on what you see in the text: Jesus is ________________. (Example: Jesus is loving, gracious, Lord, Savior, Healer, God, with us, powerful, wise, etc.)

2)  Heavenly Father, help me to know You more through Your Word.

  • How is Your heart revealed in this text? (Example: God loves people, seeks worshipers, hates sin, etc.)
  • What aspects of Your character do you want me to see? (Example: God is righteous, holy, all-knowing, ever-present, sovereign, loving, etc.)
  • How can I better understand Your mind, Your mission or Your actions in these verses? (Example: God knows everything. God’s mission is His glory. God’s ways are not our ways.)
  • Follow-Up Question: Where in my life do I need to receive these truths?

3) What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus?

  • What is Jesus teaching His disciples (through example or words)?
  • How is Jesus correcting His disciples?
  • Where is Jesus taking His disciples?
  • What were the disciples doing?
  • Follow-Up Question: Where in my life do I need to receive these truths?

4) Who am I in Christ?

5) Is there anything You’d like to say to me today?

Reflecting on the Sermon | Gospel Truths That Lead to Life Change

When possible, try to make any natural connections back to discipleship. Disciples pursue Jesus by loving God, uniting with believers, serving the world, and entrusting the gospel. Consider what you have heard in the sermon and prayerfully answer the questions below.

Love God

  • What principles from the sermon directly impact your obedience to the greatest commandment to love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength? (Mark 12:28-30)
  • As you walk in obedience, what does it look like to love God with all your heart? All your soul? All your mind? All your strength?
  • What did you learn about the character of God? How does that attribute of God’s character fuel your daily walk with Him?
  • Are there any idols standing in the way of your devotion to Christ? Identify them specifically and pinpoint biblical truth to replace the lies.

Unite with Believers

  • What is your responsibility to the body of Christ corporately considering what you’ve heard?
  • How can you “row together,” working with other believers to see God’s kingdom expanded?
  • How can you spur on other believers toward love and good deeds? (Hebrews 10:24)
  • Is there anything that God used in the sermon to give you new ideas or motivation for caring for other believers?

Serve the World

  • How can you love your neighbor as yourself? (Mark 12:31)
  • How is God promoting you to serve others? Where is a need that is going unmet?
  • What is standing in the way of you (individually) and the church (corporately) serving others in a deeper way?

Entrust the Gospel

  • Where can you entrust the gospel truths that God has shared with you through this sermon?
  • How do the truths from this sermon help you to build a platform for sharing Christ?
  • What biblical principle(s) can you share with a non-Christian?
  • During the sermon, did God prompt/convict you to entrust the gospel to someone? If so, who?

Love, Unite, Serve, Entrust

  • What gospel threads did you see throughout this sermon?

Who I Am in Christ

Matthew 5:13 I am the salt of the earth.
Matthew 5:14 I am the light of the world.
John 1:12 I am a child of God (part of His family). (Romans 8:16)
John 15:1, 5 I am part of the true vine, a channel (branch) of His (Christ’s) life.
John 15:15 I am Christ’s friend.
John 15:16 I am chosen and appointed by Christ to bear His fruit.
Acts 1:8 I am a personal witness of Christ for Christ.
Romans 6:18 I am a slave of righteousness.
Romans 6:22 I am enslaved to God.
Romans 8:14, 15 I am a son of God (God is my Father). (Galatians 3:26, 4:6)
Romans 8:17 I am a joint-heir with Christ sharing His inheritance with Him.
1 Corinthians 3:16, 6:19 I am a temple (home) of God. His Spirit (His life) dwells in me.
1 Corinthians 6:17 I am joined (united) to the Lord and am one spirit with Him.
1 Corinthians 12:27 I am a member (part) of Christ’s body. (Ephesians 5:30)
2 Corinthians 5:17 I am a new creation (new person).
2 Corinthians 5:18-19 I am reconciled to God and am a minister of reconciliation.
Galatians 3:26, 28 I am a son of God and one in Christ.
Galatians 4:6-7 I am an heir of God since I am a son of God.
Ephesians 1:1 I am a saint. (1 Corinthians 1:2; Philippians 1:1; Colossians 1:2)
Ephesians 2:10 I am God’s workmanship (handiwork) created (born anew) in Christ to do His work that He planned beforehand that I should do.
Ephesians 2:19 I am a fellow citizen with the rest of God’s people in His family.
Ephesians 3:1-4:1 I am a prisoner of Christ.
Ephesians 4:24 I am righteous and holy.
Philippians 3:20 I am a citizen of heaven and seated in heaven right now (Ephesians 2:6).
Colossians 3:3 I am hidden with Christ in God.
Colossians 3:4 I am an expression of the life of Christ because He is my life.
Colossians 3:12 I am chosen of God, holy, and dearly loved.
1 Thessalonians 1:4 I am chosen and dearly loved by God.
1 Thessalonians 5:5 I am a son of light and not of darkness.
Hebrews 3:1 I am a holy brother, partaker of a heavenly calling.
Hebrews 3:14 I am a partaker of Christ. I share in His life.
1 Peter 2:5 I am one of God’s living stones and am being built up (in Christ) as a spiritual house.
1 Peter 2:9,10 I am a chosen race. a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own possession to proclaim the excellencies of Him.
1 Peter 2:11 I am an alien and stranger to this world I temporarily live in.
1 Peter 5:8 I am an enemy of the devil.
1 John 3:1,2 I am now a child of God. I will resemble Christ when He returns.
1 John 5:18 I am born of God and the evil one (the devil) can’t touch me.
Psalm 23 & 100 I am a sheep of His pasture. Therefore, I have everything I need.

 

Who is the Holy Spirit

His Attributes

  • He is God (third Person of the Trinity) (Acts 5:3-4)
  • He is eternal (Hebrews 9:14)
  • He is omnipresent (Psalm 139:7-10)
  • He is omnipotent (Luke 1:35)
  • He thinks and knows (1 Corinthians 2:10)
  • He speaks (2 Samuel 23:2; Acts 8:29, 10:19, 11:12, 13:2; 1 Timothy 4:1; Hebrews 3:7-8)
  • He loves (Romans 15:30)
  • He has a mind and will (Romans 8:27; 1 Corinthians 12:11; Acts 15:28)
  • He can be lied to (Acts 5:3)
  • He can be a witness (Romans 8:16; Hebrews 2:4, 10:15; Acts 5:3)
  • He can be grieved (Isaiah 63:10; Ephesians 4:30)

His Symbols

  • Dove (Matthew 3:16)
  • Wind (Acts 2:1-4)
  • Fire (Acts 2:3)

His Names

  • He is God (Acts 5:3-4)
  • He is Helper, Teacher, Comforter, Counselor, and Advocate (Isaiah 11:2; John 14:16, 15:26, 16:7)
  • He is Lord (2 Corinthians 3:18)
  • He is Spirit in all the variations that come with that word (1 Corinthians 2:10)
  • Spirit of God (Matthew 3:16; 1 Corinthians 3:16)
  • Spirit of the Lord (2 Corinthians 3:17)
  • Spirit of Christ (1 Peter 1:11)
  • Spirit of Truth (John 15:26, 16:13)
  • Spirit of Life (Romans 8:2)
  • Eternal Spirit (Hebrews 9:14)

The Holy Spirit…

  • Anointed Jesus to preach the gospel (Luke 4:18)
  • Assures believers of salvation (Romans 8:15-16)
  • Authored Scripture (2 Peter 1:20-21)
  • Baptizes believers into one body (1 Corinthians 12:13)
  • Calls and commissions the believer (Acts 13:2-4)
  • Cleanses the believer (1 Thessalonians 4:7-8)
  • Convicts of sin (John 16:8-10)
  • Descended upon Jesus at His baptism (Matthew 3:16)
  • Empowers the believer (Acts 1:8; 1 Thessalonians 1:5)
  • Fills the believer (Acts 2:4, 4:29-31, 6:3-5)
  • Gives gifts to the believer (1 Corinthians 12:8-11)
  • Gives joy to the believer (1 Thessalonians 1:6)
  • Glorifies Christ (John 16:14)
  • Guides us into all truth (John 16:13)
  • Helps our weaknesses (Romans 8:26)
  • Indwells the believer (John 14:17; Romans 8:9-14)
  • Intercedes for the believer (Romans 8:26)
  • Led Jesus in the wilderness (Luke 4:1)
  • Leads the believer (Romans 8:14)
  • Liberates the believer (Romans 8:2)
  • Molds the character of the believer (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • Produces fruit in the believer (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • Provides victory over the flesh for the believer (Romans 8:2-4)
  • Raised Jesus from the dead (Romans 8:11)
  • Regenerates the believer (Titus 3:5)
  • Sanctifies the believer (Romans 15:16)
  • Seals the believer (Ephesians 1:13-14)
  • Strengthened Jesus after the temptation (Luke 4:14)
  • Strengthens the believer (Ephesians 3:16)
  • Teaches the believer (John 14:26)
  • Testifies of Jesus (John 15:26)
  • Helps in worship (Philippians 3:3)

Understanding Sabbath

Finding Rest Sermon Series (1 of 4)

Sabbath in the Old Testament for Israel 

  • Sabbath as a Word: There are two primary words for rest in Hebrew. Shabbat means to stop working. The word “Sabbath” is derived from shabbat. Nuakh means to dwell, settle, or abide. God introduced both words around the same time. In the creation account, God worked for six days and rested (shabbat) on the seventh day (Genesis 2:2-3). After God created humans, He “rests them” or “settles them” (nuakh) in the garden with Him (Genesis 2:15). The literary structure communicates a link between shabbat and nuakh. God rests from His work (shabbat) and then He settles (nuakh) His people to dwell with them.

  • Sabbath as a Day: Sabbath is the seventh day of the week. On Sabbath, the children of Israel were to rest from their work in remembrance of God resting from His work in creation. He created the universe in six days and “rested” on the seventh day (Exodus 20:8-11). Observing Sabbath was outlined in the Mosaic Law (Exodus 16:23-29; 31:14-16; 34:2-3; Deuteronomy 5:12-15; Nehemiah 13:15-22; Jeremiah 17:21-27).

  • Sabbath as a Sign: Sabbath was a sign of perpetual covenant between Israel and God (Exodus 31:12-13, 16-17). This sign was unique to Israel. God never commanded a Gentile nation to observe the seventh day (Psalm 147:19-20).

  • Sabbath as a Reminder: When Sabbath was given to Israel, Moses reminded them that they were slaves in Egypt and God rescued them (Deuteronomy 5:15). It reminded them of where they were and what God did. As slaves, they were unable to stop working. As God’s people, they were called to rest.

  • Sabbath as a Place: God didn’t just call Israel out of bondage in Egypt, He brought them into abundance in Canaan. Prior to entering the land, God said to Moses, “My presence shall go with you, and I will give you rest” (Exodus 33:14). God owned the land of rest (Leviticus 25:23).

  • Sabbath for Creation: Rest was important for every aspect of creation. God instructed rest for people, land, and animals. Exodus 23:10-12 says, “You shall sow your land for six years and gather in its yield, but on the seventh year you shall let it rest and lie fallow, so that the needy of your people may eat; and whatever they leave the beast of the field may eat. You are to do the same with your vineyard and your olive grove. Six days you are to do your work, but on the seventh day you shall cease from labor so that your ox and your donkey may rest, and the son of your female slave, as well as your stranger, may refresh themselves.” Similar instructions regarding land are found in Leviticus 25:4.

Sabbath in the New Testament for Christians

  • Sabbath as a Day: While the Jewish people met in synagogues on the Sabbath (Mark 6:2; Luke 4:31; Acts 13:14, 27, 42-44; 15:21; 16:13; 17:2, etc.), the New Testament does not command that the Sabbath be the day of worship. Traditionally, Christians have held their primary corporate worship services on Sundays, the first day of the week, to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus (Matthew 28:1; Mark 16:2; Luke 24:1; John 20:1). However, it’s not commanded that Sunday be the only day for Christians to worship either. In fact, Acts 2:46-47 tells us that Christians met daily. When New Testament passages describe Christians meeting on the Sabbath (Acts through Revelation), it was for evangelistic efforts at Jewish synagogues (Acts 13-18; 1 Corinthians 9:20).

  • Sabbath as a Law: The church is not under Mosaic Law. We are free from Sabbath-keeping regulations (Romans 14:5-6a; Galatians 4:9-10). Christians are free to observe a special day or live like every day is special (Romans 14:5-6; Colossians 2:16).

  • Sabbath as a Principle: Jesus called to those who are weary and burdened and offered to give them rest (Matthew 11:28-30). Hebrews 4:1-13 has much to say about the believer’s rest.

Misunderstandings of Sabbath

  • Some believe Sabbath law was instituted in Eden because of the connection between God’s rest and creation. While God’s rest on the seventh day was a foreshadowing of the coming Sabbath law, there is no record of the children of Israel practicing a full understanding of Sabbath before leaving Egypt.

  • Some groups view Sabbath as the only legitimate day for Christians to attend worship services (i.e. Seventh Day Adventists). This view does not align with New Testament teachings as shown in the previous section.

  • Some groups believe that Christians are required to practice Sabbath-keeping according to Mosaic Law. However, Christians are free from the bondage of the Law (Galatians 4:1-6; Romans 6:14). There is spiritual freedom and not a command from God.

  • Some groups believe that since Sabbath-keeping is part of Mosaic Law, there is no value in observing principles of Sabbath. While believers are no longer under the Law, there are related principles of rest in Scripture that are not connected to the Law (i.e. creation, sleep, weariness from work, spiritual rest, etc.). There is freedom to walk in biblical wisdom.

Principles of Rest

Finding Rest Sermon Series (2 of 4)

God’s design for rest leads us down a path of remembrance, refreshment, and refinement. As we act upon related principles from Scripture, we are better positioned to enjoy meaningful rest.

Principle 1: Rest requires personal discipline. We cannot be involved in everything and experience meaningful rest. It takes discipline to say “no” to certain activities. Sabbath was to be a counterbalance to the busyness of life. The rituals surrounding Sabbath were never intended to torture the faithful, but to get people into a mindset of rest. Rest requires discipline.

Principle 2: Rest involves humble trust. When we say “no” to more activity and “yes” to meaningful rest, it creates boundaries that protect us, our families, and biblical priorities. We are better positioned to walk by faith, be led by the Spirit, and run the race with endurance. Rest fuels kingdom usefulness. By resting, we’re saying, “God, I trust you more than my efforts.”

Principle 3: Rest includes elements of beauty and joy. Part of our rest is enjoying what was done while working. After creating the world, God saw “it was very good” (Genesis 1:31). He didn’t just cease from work, He enjoyed what He made. Rest gives us time to enjoy God, enjoy His creation, enjoy His blessings, and enjoy the fruits of our labors.

Principle 4: Rest is satisfied in completed work. When God finished His work of creation, He was satisfied with His work, and He rested from His work (Genesis 2:2). When we have done what God has called us to do (to the best of our ability through the grace given to us), we can be satisfied that it is enough. We can rest in completed work.

Principle 5: Rest is fully experienced with God. There are two primary words for rest in Hebrew. Shabbat means to stop working. Nuakh means to dwell, settle, or abide. After creation, God rested from His work on the seventh day (shabbat; Genesis 2:2-3) and He settled His people in the garden to dwell with Him (nuakh; Genesis 2:15). True rest comes in God’s presence.

Principle 6: Rest reminds us of redemption. The story of Sabbath includes creation, betrayal, redemption, covenant, promises, and freedom. By practicing Sabbath, Israel was reminded of where God found them and what He did to redeem them. The same basic principle applies to those in Christ. Our ability to enjoy God’s rest was made possible by redemption.

Principle 7: Rest is a declaration of freedom. If someone cannot stop working, they are effectively enslaved to work. In Deuteronomy 5:12-15, God connected Sabbath to freeing the Hebrew people from slavery. By practicing Sabbath, they declared their freedom. In a similar way, our rest shows that we are not enslaved to our work.

Principle 8: Rest distinguishes us from the world. Sabbath was given as a covenant sign between God and Israel (Exodus 31:12–17). It marked God’s people as different and served as a witness to pagan neighbors who had no distinctions for the seventh day. Taking time to rest will set us apart from others. Busyness is the norm; rest is counter-cultural.

Principle 9: Rest allows for reflection on eternal matters. Sabbath reminded Israel of who they were, where God found them, and what God did for them (Exodus 20:15). By observing Sabbath, it provided a weekly reminder of God’s interaction and plan with His people. When we take time to rest, we can reflect upon God’s interaction and plan for us.

Principle 10: Rest calms us when easily annoyed. When we enter God’s rest, He brings perfect peace. God’s rest helps calm us of things that disturb us. Some people stay mentally and emotionally stirred up. In Christ, we have perfect peace.

Principle 11: Rest enables us to be settled and secure. When we enter God’s rest, we are freed from chasing philosophies, religions, and experiences to find inner peace. We’re established, settled, and rooted in Christ. It was symbolized as Canaan rest in the Old Testament. It’s realized by Calvary rest in the New Testament.

Principle 12: Rest is forfeited when we cling to sin. The problem of restlessness began in the garden. Unbelief led to sin, sin led to restlessness, but for those who trust God, rest can be restored. Through the gospel of Jesus, we are delivered from the penalty and power of sin. However, when we refuse to repent of known sin, we forfeit the peace with God.

Principle 13: Rest restores wholeness on three levels. Sabbath rest impacts the whole person. Physically, Sabbath calls the person to cease from their labors (Deuteronomy 5:12-15). Emotionally, Sabbath calls the person to stop trying to prove themselves, but rest in their identity from God (Exodus 6:7). Spiritually, Sabbath calls the person to cease trying to make themselves right with God and rest deeply in the finished work of Jesus (Hebrews 4:1-10).

Principle 14: Rest encourages openness with God. Hebrews 4:12-13 tells us that God’s Word reveals the thoughts, intentions, and reasons of our hearts. It shows why we do what we do. Our lives are laid bare before God. When we are diligent to enter God’s rest (Hebrews 4:11), we stop trying to hide from God (Hebrews 4:12-13). We stop hiding our flaws and imperfections behind the proverbial fig leaves of life. We live in the light and rest from the work under the work.

Preparing for Rest

Finding Rest Sermon Series (3 of 4)

Meaningful rest does not just happen. In a world that is constantly pushing for more, rest requires the discipline to know when to stop and how to refuel.

Evaluating Life

It’s good to pause and reflect over the current state of your life. Sometimes, we’re unable to rest because of issues we’re unwilling to address or changes we need to make. It may be helpful to walk through these categories and questions every week, month, or quarter.

  • Physical Health: Do I get enough sleep and exercise? Am I eating well? Do I feel drained? Am I battling recurring sickness? Is my current pace sustainable and healthy?
  • Emotional Health: Am I consistently worried, anxious, or depressed? Do I live in fear? Am I processing grief? Are my emotions in check?
  • Mental Health: Am I forgetting things that I used to remember? Am I continuing to read, learn, grow, and explore? What am I learning today that I’m excited about?
  • Spiritual Health: How’s my soul? Am I spending regular time with God in a way that’s leading to spiritual growth? How can I see God at work in my life today?
  • Direction in Life: Am I doing what I’m supposed to be doing (i.e. as a believer, a spouse, a parent, in a career, etc.)? If I continue on my current path, does it lead to a good place?
  • Significance in Life: Am I engaged in what matters most? Am I investing my life in things that last for eternity? Am I following Jesus or doing my own thing?
  • Change in Life: Is God prompting me to change anything? If so, what? What do I need to do to obey God’s promptings? Am I making wise decisions?
  • Purpose in Life: Do I know my purpose in life? Am I pursuing a life of purpose and meaning? How would I define a life of purpose and meaning?

Course Adjustments

If you recognize areas in need of change, list those adjustments in simple statements. To keep from being overwhelmed, limit the list to five changes and pray for God’s grace to change. How would you finish this statement? I believe God is prompting me to…

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Understanding Self

Every person is different. What fuels one person will drain another person. It’s important to understand personality type (introvert/ extrovert), personal desires (likes, passions, dreams), individual schedules (work, family, church, recreation), and season of life (single, married, family, retired). To practice the discipline of meaningful rest, you need to recognize what drains you and what fills you. You will not be able to avoid everything that drains you. Nor will you be able to do only things that fill you. However, you can make a conscious effort to balance each list and emphasize “the filling list” during times of rest.

  • What drains me? Include things you dread, find annoying, lead to frustration, or make you feel empty. Possibilities may include long meetings, hard conversations, shopping, family drama, etc.
  • What fills me? Include things that bring you joy, encourage you, excite you, or make you feel full. Possibilities may include prayer, reading, time with family or friends, gardening, taking a nap, etc.

When preparing for meaningful rest, try to minimize the things that drain you (or avoid them if possible) and focus your plans on things that fill you. Walking through this discipline will help you schedule time more effectively, focus on God more fully, understand yourself more deeply, and learn to rest more completely.

Practicing Rest

Finding Rest Sermon Series (4 of 4)

Date: __/__/__

Length of Rest: __ (Hours/Days)

What is My Plan for Rest (Sabbath)?

___

Does My Plan Lead Me To:

  • Stop working
  • Find beauty and joy
  • Celebrate redemption
  • Live free
  • Reflect deeply
  • Feel settled and secure
  • Experience wholeness
  • Trust God
  • Be satisfied
  • Engage God
  • Be different
  • Practice calmness
  • Repent of sin
  • Be open

Weekly Reflections:

What did I learn, discover, or do this week that stretched me? How am I growing? __

How did God bless my life this week? What should I celebrate? What am I thankful for? __

What is God currently teaching me? What topics is He continually bringing to mind? __

Where is God calling me to trust and obey? Am I faithfully acting on what He said? __

How am I experiencing God in my life today? Can I see God’s influence in the way I do my job, relate to people, make decisions, steward time, use resources, engage the kingdom, etc.? __

What did I observe by resting with God today? What did He reveal about Himself and me? Where am I struggling to rest? What has me distracted? How does the gospel apply? __

Family Discipleship | Overview

(Part 1 of 6)

The Family Discipleship series is designed to give believers a simple framework for discipling their kids. This framework does not cover everything you may want to teach your child, but it will address major parts of Christian theology, personal character, and practical wisdom.

The Family Discipleship series has six main cards: Overview, Foundational Truths, Intermediate Truths, Continuing Truths, Leading A Family Devotional Time, and Praying for Your Kids. Each card is numerically marked to show where it fits in the series. The last two cards are self-explanatory and can be acted upon as soon as possible. The Foundational, Intermediate, and Continuing Truths cards offer a basic gameplan for discipleship during that season of life. These cards build on the information of the previous card and should be done in the order indicated. We encourage you to work through each card multiple times within that season of life.

Foundational Truths (Birth Through Elementary School Years):

We will emphasize three big areas of Christian theology: the Bible, God, and Jesus. Much of the Christian life is discovered in the Bible, through relationship with Jesus, and for the purpose of knowing and glorifying God. It’s imperative that a child has a strong foundational knowledge of each one.

Intermediate Truths (Middle School Years):

We will emphasize truths that are needed during the middle school years. As a child matures, he or she needs to know where to go for answers, the basics of God’s will, the importance of choosing friends carefully, the three key relationships of Christianity, and the connection between habit formation, personal character, and the best possible future.  

Continuing Truths (High School Years):

We will emphasize truths that are needed for maturity in Christ and must be worked out over a lifetime. Following Jesus requires us to walk by faith, die to self, and serve others. We will see the importance of biblical community, the need for kingdom engagement, and how everything we do reflects on Christ.

 

FAQs

  • How do I start? Start with the end in mind. By the time your child leaves your home and immediate supervision, what traits do you want to see in your child? What truths do you want to teach your child? What character do you want to see displayed in your child? Write those pieces down. When everything is written down, pray, teach, and work towards that end. There may be things you want to share that are not covered in this series. Feel free to write those pieces in and share them at an appropriate time.
  • What’s the best way to share this information? Share the information prayerfully, regularly, naturally, and flexibly. Pray for open hearts, teachable moments, Spirit-led connections, etc. Share regularly in the natural flow of life. It’s better to share 3 or 4 times a week than trying to teach everything on a vacation. Share in the everyday moments of life (i.e. at dinner, when driving to school, bedtime, or when playing). And remember to be flexible with your plans. Your plans will need to change as your children grow up and as other things demand more time.
  • What if you didn’t get a chance to teach the foundational truths to your children during the recommended years? Start where you are today. If your child is older, they will probably understand truths more quickly. The format for training will probably be different, but the content will be the same.
  • Do these discipleship resources take the place of a Christian catechism? No. While there are similarities in regard to systematically taking someone through key truths of the Christian faith, most  catechisms are designed around a “question and answer” format. If you’re interested in taking your child through a catechism, it may be helpful to check out New City Catechism, Westminster Shorter Catechism, Baptist Catechism, or Children’s Catechism.
  • Is there a particular Bible translation that is recommended? It’s been said that the best Bible translation is the one you’ll actually read. While there’s some truth in that statement, there are some translations that are stronger than others. A great all-around Bible translation will be the ESV. If you’re looking for a solid translation that’s easier to understand (especially for young children), try the NLT.

Family Discipleship | Foundational Truths (Birth Through Elementary School Years)

(Part 2 of 6)

For humanity to know God, God had to reveal Himself to us. Scripture teaches that all have sinned, and no one seeks after God (Psalm 14:2-3, Romans 3:10-12). Fortunately for us, God has chosen to be known. He has revealed Himself through creation, our conscience, Jesus, and Scripture.

While it is good to walk your children through favorite verses and well-known stories from the Bible, be sure to emphasize truths about Scripture, God, and Jesus. Humanity was created for relationship with God. That relationship is made possible by the finished work of Jesus. And the vast majority of what we know about Jesus’ finished work, God’s character, our purpose, and how we grow in this relationship is learned from the pages of Scripture.

Truths about the Bible:

  • The Bible is God’s Word. (2 Peter 1:20-21; Hebrews 1:1; 1 Thessalonians 2:13; 2 Timothy 3:16; Hebrews 4:12)
  • The Bible is true. (Psalm 119:72; John 17:17; Psalm 19:7; Proverbs 30:5-6)
  • The Bible is sufficient and complete. (2 Timothy 3:16-17; Revelation 22:18-19; Deuteronomy 4:2; Proverbs 30:6)
  • The Bible gives instruction. (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
  • The Bible provides wisdom. (Proverbs, James, Ecclesiastes)
  • The Bible is living and active. (Hebrews 4:12)
  • The Bible is God breathed. (2 Timothy 3:16)

Truths about God:

  • God is one. (Deuteronomy 6:4; 1 Timothy 2:5; Deuteronomy 32:39; 1 Kings 8:60; Psalm 86:10; Isaiah 46:9; Mark 12:29-34; 1 Corinthians 8:4-6; Galatians 3:20; Ephesians 4:6)
  • God is the Creator. (Genesis 1; John 1; Psalm 115:15; Nehemiah 9:6; 2 Chronicles 2:12; Exodus 20:11)
  • God is trustworthy. (Joshua 1; Jeremiah 17:7; Psalm 62:8; Proverbs 3:5-6; Romans 15:13; Daniel 3:28; John 8:26)
  • God is Sovereign. (1 Samuel 2:6-10; Isaiah 45:5-7; Proverbs 21:1; Ecclesiastes 7:13-14; Luke 1:37; Psalm 115:3; Psalm 47:7-8; Isaiah 46:10; 1 Chronicles 29:11-12; Psalm 62:11)
  • God is always present. (Matthew 28:20; Acts 18:10; Psalm 139:7-10; Jeremiah 23:23-24; Matthew 18:20; Hebrews 13:5b; John 14:16-17)
  • God owns everything. (Psalm 50:10-12; Haggai 2:8; Leviticus 25:23; 1 Chronicles 29:14-16; Psalm 24:1-2; 1 Peter 4:10-11; 1 Corinthians 6:19-20; Deuteronomy 10:14; Colossians 1:16)
  • God loves you (the Gospel). (Jeremiah 31:3; Ephesians 2:4-7; 1 John 4:10, 16, 19; Colossians 3:12; Titus 3:4-5; 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17; John 13:34; John 15:9; Romans 8:35-39)
  • God cares for your needs. (2 Kings 4; Exodus 16:1-36; 1 Kings 17:1-16; Matthew 6:25-33; Philippians 4:19; Psalm 37:25, 28)
  • God is holy and pure. (1 Samuel 2:2; 1 Peter 1:16; Leviticus 19:2; Isaiah 57:15; Revelation 4:8; Psalm 77:13; Psalm 99:9; Hebrews 12:14; Ephesians 1:4)
  • God is worthy of praise. (Deuteronomy 6:5; Psalm 96:4; 2 Samuel 22:4; Psalm 150:6; Hebrews 13:15; Psalm 148:1-14; Psalm 22:3; 1 Chronicles 16:25; Revelation 4:11)
  • God is King. (1 Timothy 1:17; Jeremiah 10:10; Revelation 19:16; 1 Timothy 6:15; Daniel 2:37; Zechariah 14:9; Revelation 17:14; Hebrews 1:8)

Truths about Jesus:

  • Jesus is God. (Matthew 1:23; Isaiah 9:6; John 5:17-18; John 10:30-33; John 20:28; Titus 2:13)
  • Jesus is Lord. (John 20:28; Luke 2:11; Luke 24:34; Acts 2:36; 1 Corinthians 15:47)
  • Jesus is Savior. (Ephesians 5:23; John 4:40-42; Luke 2:11; Luke 1:47)
  • Jesus is Messiah. (Isaiah 53; Luke 2:11)
  • Jesus is the Word. (John 1:1, 14)
  • Jesus is Immanuel (God with us). (Isaiah 7:14; Matthew 1:23)
  • Jesus is the only way to God. (John 14:1-6)

In time, start to walk through the following Vine Resource cards:

  • Embracing the Gospel
  • Spiritual Disciplines
  • Decision Making
  • Discerning God’s Voice
  • Work Ethic
  • Gratefulness

Family Discipleship | Intermediate Truths (Middle School Years)

(Part 3 of 6)

As our kids get older, they will face different struggles (i.e. peer pressure, major decisions, testing boundaries and authority). It’s good to reinforce biblical truths and principles of wisdom as they naturally walk through those situations. These statements (and their corresponding passages) align with common concerns, struggles, desires, and questions at this stage of life.

Truths About Answers

  • The Bible contains the answers you need. (Jeremiah 33:3; 2 Timothy 3:15-17; Psalm 19:7-14; Psalm 119:105; Romans 15:4)
  • God often guides His people through Scripture, prayer, godly council, and circumstances. (Psalm 119:105; 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Psalm 25:9; Hebrews 4:12; James 1:5; Psalm 25:4-5; Proverbs 3:5-6; John 16:13; Philippians 4:6-7; Proverbs 11:14; Proverbs 15:22; Proverbs 12:15; Proverbs 19:20; Genesis 50:20; Ruth 2:3; Acts 8:26; Exodus 2:1-10)

Truths About Purpose

  • God has a plan for your l (Jeremiah 29:11; Romans 8:28; Ephesians 2:10 AMP; Proverbs 19:1; Proverbs 16:9; Psalm 33:11; Jeremiah 1:5; Psalm 32:8)
  • As you pursue Jesus, He will lead you into His will for your life.

 

Truths About Character

  • Telling the truth is about integrity and character. (John 8:32; Zechariah 8:16; Proverbs 12:19; Ephesians 4:15; Proverbs 28:13; Colossians 3:9-10; Proverbs 6:16-19, 28:18)
    • Integrity = the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.
    • Character = the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.
  • Our habits become our lifestyle; our lifestyle forms our character; our character determines our future. It’s been said, “When you’re born, you look like your parents; when you die, you look like your choices.” Choose well.
  • Never subtract from your character to add to your popularity.

Truths About Relationships

  • Christianity is about (Relationship with God, the Church, and the world). (John 17:3; John 15:5; Matthew 22:37; John 13:34; Mark 12:31; 1 Peter 4:8; Ephesians 4:2-3; John 3:16; Romans 5:8)
  • You might not always agree with your parents, but you are called to honor, obey, and respect your parents. (Ephesians 6:1-3; Exodus 20:12; Leviticus 19:3; Colossians 3:20; Deuteronomy 5:16; Proverbs 23:22)
  • There is safety in submitting to proper authority. (Romans 13:1-7; 1 Peter 2:13-17; Titus 3:1; Hebrews 13:17)
  • Be careful about the friends you make. (Proverbs 13:20, 14:7; 1 Corinthians 15:33; Proverbs 1; Luke 6:43-45)
    • True friends are loving, loyal, and life giving. (Proverbs 17:17; 18:24; 27:9; Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
    • True friends tell you the truth. (Proverbs 27:6)
    • True friends make each other better. (Proverbs 27:17; Hebrews 10:24-25)
    • Don’t hang around those who lie and divide others. (Proverbs 6:10-19)
    • Don’t hang around angry people. (Proverbs 22:24-25)
    • Don’t hang around fools. (Proverbs 14:7; Proverbs 13:20)
    • Don’t hang around those who live a sinful lifestyle. (Psalm 1; Proverbs 1:10; 1 Corinthians 5:11)
    • Don’t hang around those who love the things of this world. (James 4:4)
    • Don’t be yoked together with unbelievers. (2 Corinthians 6:14)

Walk through the following Vine Resource cards:

  • Stewardship
  • Paths of Wisdom and Foolishness
  • The Goals in Life
  • Discipleship
  • Religion vs. Relationship
  • God’s Big Story
  • Identity in Christ
  • Who I Am In Christ
  • Priorities

Walk through the four books of This Is The Gospel

Family Discipleship |Continuing Truths (High School Years)

(Part 4 of 6)

For many parents, high school represents the final four years of their children being under their direct supervision in the home. These final years are critical for launching godly, responsible, and wise adults into the world. The previous cards have laid a good foundation. This card will provide supporting truths for a mature walk with God.

Truths About Discipleship

  • Following Jesus requires death to self. (Luke 9:23; John 3:30, 12:24; 1 Corinthians 15:31; Romans 6:8, 11; Galatians 2:20, 5:24)
  • Submission precedes transformation. (James 4:7; Romans 8:7, 13:1; Ephesians 5:21-22, 6:5-8; Proverbs 3:5-6; 1 Peter 2:13; 5:5-6; 1 Timothy 3:4; 1 Corinthians 15:28)
  • Following Jesus requires faith.
    • Faith defined (Hebrews 11:1, 6)
    • Walk by faith (2 Corinthians 5:7)
    • Saved by faith (Ephesians 2:8-9)
    • Justified by faith (Rom. 5:1)
    • Live by faith (Gal. 3:11)
    • Serve by faith (John 6:29)
    • Overcome by faith (1 John 5:4)
    • Whatever is not of faith is sin (Romans 14:23)
  • God has gifted you to serve Him. (Romans 12:6-8; 1 Peter 4:10-11; 1 Corinthians 12:1, 4-11, 27-28; Ephesians 4:11-16; 2 Timothy 1:6-7)
  • You need Christian community to reach your potential in Christ. (Acts 2:42-47; Hebrews 10:24-25; Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Galatians 6:2; 1 Corinthians 12:12-14; Romans 12:5; Proverbs 27:17; Ephesians 4:2-3)
  • Everything you do reflects upon Christ. (Colossians 3:17; 2 Corinthians 3:18; Matthew 5:14-16; 1 Peter 2:12; Titus 2:7-8)
  • As a Christian, you never have the right to be unkind. (Ephesians 4:32; Luke 6:35; Colossians 3:12; 1 Peter 3:9; Galatians 5:22-23)

Truths About Life

  • Purity paves the way for intimacy.
  • Direction, not intention, determines destination.
  • You will marry someone you date. Date wisely.

Truths About Sin

  • What does sin bring?
    • Sickness (Psalm 38:3-5; Micah 6:13; John 5:14; 1 Corinthians 11:30)
    • Burden (Psalm 38:4; Psalm 32:3-4; Isaiah 1:4; 2 Timothy 3:6; Proverbs 5:22)
    • Anxiety (Psalm 32:3-4; Psalm 38:18; Hebrews 12:14-15; Matthew 6:25-34)
    • Shame/exposure (Numbers 32:23; Romans 6:21; Genesis 3:7; Ezekiel 43:10)
    • Lawlessness (1 John 3:4; Romans 4:7; Titus 2:14; Hebrews 10:17)
    • Death/Separation (Romans 6:23; Isaiah 59:2; Genesis 3:7-19; James 1:15)
    • Destruction (Galatians 6:7-8)
    • Deception (1 John 1:8-10)
    • Slavery (John 8:34)
  • How is sin removed, avoided, and addressed?
    • Our sin debt was paid by (Colossians 2:13-14; 1 Peter 2:24; Matthew 26:28)
    • Our sin debt is removed when we repent of our sin by placing faith in (Romans 3:23-24; John 3:16-17; Acts 16:31; Ephesians 2:8-9)
    • We’re called to confess and repent of (1 John 1:9; Psalm 32:5)
    • We’re called to resist (Romans 6:12-14 NLT; Colossians 3:5; 1 Corinthians 10:13; James 4:7; Ephesians 6:10-11, 13, 17; Galatians 5:16)
    • We’re called to lovingly confront sin in other (Matthew 18:15-17; Luke 17:3; Galatians 6:1; 1 Timothy 5:20; James 5:19-20)
    • We’re called to pray for the way of (1 Corinthians 10:13)
    • We’re called to memorize Scripture to battle (Psalm 119:9-11; Matthew 4:1-11; Colossians 3:16; Ephesians 6:17)

 

Walk through the following Vine Resource cards:

  • Marriage
  • Basics of World Religion
  • Principles for Studying the Bible
  • The Character of God
  • Creation vs. Evolution

Walk through the booklet Spiritual Gifts

Family Discipleship | Leading A Family Devotional Time

(Part 5 of 6)

Leading a family devotional time requires a blend of intentionality, flexibility, and persistence. If you wait for everything to be perfect before you start—you’ll never start. If you wait until you feel “spiritual enough,” or theologically qualified, or knowledgeable enough—you’ll never start.  If you wait until things calm down in life—you’ll never start. In a somewhat strange way, you follow the example of Shamgar from Judges 3:31. Do what you can, with what you have, where you are, for the glory of God. Here are some of the best practices:

Set a Consistent Time and Keep It Simple

  • Choose a time and frequency that works best for your family. It may be daily at dinner, or three times a week on the way to school, or biweekly before bedtime. Whatever it is, put it on the calendar and tell your kids. Consistency helps establish rhythms and routine.
  • Short and simple devotions tend to be more effective. It doesn’t mean you don’t have deep discussions or study hard texts. It does mean that you refrain from unpacking the whole Bible in an evening. Leave your kids wanting more instead of feeling overwhelmed.

Work to Foster Engagement and Greater Participation

  • When your kids are able, have them read Scripture, lead in prayer, and share thoughts. Involvement makes the time more meaningful and helps retention.
  • Ask questions based on the text or truth being conveyed and leave room for discussion. Your kids need to process truth out loud. Listening builds trust and engagement.
  • As shown in this series, use age-appropriate material. By the way, young children are able to process far more than adults give them credit for understanding. Don’t be afraid of harder truths. Just make sure they understand.

Create a Joyful and Safe Environment

  • A family devotional time is not a chore to endure, it’s a blessing to experience. Your attitude, your tone, and your body language will influence how your family views this time.
  • If your child expresses doubts, or fears, or questions—that’s okay. If you’re unaware of their concerns, you’re not able to help them process things in a helpful way. Open communication fosters genuine spiritual growth.

Always Incorporate Prayer and Scripture

  • Begin with prayer and end with prayer. Ask God to guide your time together, guide you all into truth, and help you know Him more.
  • As you walk through specific truths and the Scriptures that go with them, consistently remind your children that the Bible contains the answers we need.
  • You may want to read through a chapter of Scripture, or a book of the Bible, or do a character study of someone in the Bible. As you do, show how Scripture applies to real life.

Be Flexible and Personal

  • Be willing to adjust the format or frequency when life gets hectic. If you’re only able to have a family devotional time twice a week, it still means you’re having intentional conversations over a hundred times a year. That’s a win!
  • Talk about how God is working in your life. Personal connections help make faith real and relevant.

Use a Variety of Resources and Locations

  • It’s okay to use children’s devotionals, Christian books, Bible apps, Christian music, videos, or other resources to keep devotional times engaging.
  • If it’s a beautiful day, do your devotional time in nature, around a pool, or while playing in the yard. When on vacation, you may have an opportunity to do a devotional time at the beach, while hiking in the mountains, or even standing in line at an amusement park.

Focus on Application and Emphasize Repetition

  • Discuss how these truths relate to everyday life. God’s Word is always relevant.
  • Regularly revisit statements and sc Repetition helps with memorization and internalization of God’s Word.

Embrace the Long-Term Perspective

You’re playing the long game. Spiritual growth happens over time. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t see immediate results. You’re planting seeds of truth and investing in moments that matter.

By following these practices, family devotional time can become a cherished, formative part of your family’s spiritual journey.

Family Discipleship | Praying For Your Kids

(Part 6 of 6)

Praying for your children is both a blessing and a full-time job. It’s wonderful to see God answering prayer and working in their lives. It’s also hard to stay focused, be strategic in prayer, and not give up when change is not immediately seen. Here are some simple steps that you can incorporate to effectively pray for your children. These steps are supported by Scripture and championed by previous generations of praying parents.

Pray Consistently and Persistently

In Luke 11:9, Jesus taught about the need for persistence in prayer. He encouraged believers to “…keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you” (NLT). Persistence is needed when problems persist. Be consistent in your prayer and keep showing up before God. Trust that God not only hears your prayer, but He will respond in His time.

Pray Specifically and Scripturally

When you pray specifically, you can rejoice with clarity. Instead of praying, “God, bless my child,” pray through specifics of what that blessing would entail. “God, please bless my child with godly friends, with the ability to concentrate in school, with protection when I’m not there, with a heart that desires to know and obey You…” Specific prayer helps you walk with your child through the ups and downs of life.

Couple specific prayer with Scriptural prayer. When you pray God’s Word, you pray God’s will. For example, you can pray Colossians 1:9-10 for your child. Pray that they are filled with spiritual wisdom and understanding. You can pray Proverbs 3:5-6 for your child. Pray that they trust in the Lord and acknowledge Him in all their ways. Let this approach guide your prayers in regard to your child’s salvation, growth in faith, protection, wisdom, and character. 

Pray Methodically and Strategically

 

The more you pray, the more you see the need for prayer. To cover everything God brings to mind, you may want to break your prayer list down over a week. There are some things you may want to pray for daily and other things you can pray for on a certain day of the week. Align prayers with days when that need is greatest. For example, if your child takes tests every Friday, let Friday be a day when you’re praying over their education. If your child has games every Thursday, let Thursday be the day you pray over their physical health. Breaking a prayer list down over a week allows you to focus more time on specific needs at crucial times.

 

Pray With the End in Mind

As mentioned in the overview card of this Family Discipleship series, it’s good to write down what you hope to see in your child by the time they leave your home. As you write down traits, character qualities, and dreams for your child, let those pieces guide your prayers.  

Pray With Gratitude

Thank God for your children as gifts from Him (Psalm 127:3). Be grateful for the answered prayers and “unanswered” prayers. Gratitude shifts your perspective and reminds you of God’s faithfulness, even when circumstances are challenging.

 

Pray With Your Children

Invite your children to pray with you. There are times to pray for your kids and over your kids. There are also times to pray with your kids. Each setting provides an example of prayer and encourages them to develop their own relationship with God.

 

Pray For Everything

Cover your children in prayer. Don’t leave any aspect of their life uncovered. Pray for their salvation, spiritual growth, relationships, protection, emotional health, education, future spouse, future job, current struggles, character development, desire for God, general attitude, etc. Use specific Bible verses. Pray Philippians 4:6 for peace in times of worry. Pray Psalm 32:8 for guidance. Pray 2 Timothy 1:7 for courage and self-discipline. Cover them in prayer. 

Additional Resources

  • Praying for Your Child from Head to Toe by Sharon Jaynes
  • The Power of a Praying Parent by Stormie Omartian
  • A Practical Guide for Praying Parents by Erwin Lutzer